“Let me show you how to compassionately shift from automatic knee jerk reactions that will never get you what you want, into the wise adult part of you that can take a breath and do something, not automatic, but chosen, deliberate and more skillful.” - Prem Kalpa

You've likely done our Express Your Essence (EYE) course, a prerequisite for Self Leadership (SL) or you may have applied to join SL without having attended EYE. As an EYE graduate, you have felt the power of going into brainwave states that has you know yourself much more deeply. You know how to engage with your subconscious and do powerful work there. Or you are someone who is signed up for the EYE bridging course and this is what lies ahead.

You will have learned from EYE that opening the door to your subconscious can be confronting and hard to navigate at times, a whole new language to learn and there tends to be a lot of stuff in there!

In your subconscious you store:

• Your childhood traumas

• Your social conditioning of who you've been told you are and how you're "meant to be"

• Your maladaptive coping strategies you learned that would earn you love and acceptance, learned in your past

We know that if you do not meet these things in yourself, you are likely to continue painful, repetitive cycles that inhibit you from feeling the self empowerment that is your birth rite and the intimacy in relationships that deeply nourish you in your life.

All of these things stored in the subconscious, show up for you as different parts of you: different voices, feelings and ways of being inside that drive you and have you reacting in different ways. You will tend to be identified with these parts of you, as just you, your personality, which likely will have you feeling out of control and stuck in your life, in challenging cycles of pain.

It's your identification with different parts of you that has you possibly:

• Reactive and easily triggered

• Feeling down and lacking inspiration

• Repeating the same patterns over and over

• In confusing inner conflict that is tiring and immobilising

• Have your relationships not working

• Self-sabotaging and not doing the things you want and say you are going to do

• Not have transformative practices working - if you do the practice from your parts you just keep perpetuating those parts

It's a wonder any of us want to look at this at all! It all just seems so painful, overwhelming and confusing. We are here to help!

In Self-Leadership we take the powerful brainwave and imaginal skills you learnt in Express Your Essence (or in the bridging course you are registered in) and we start to apply them with nuanced precision to look at different parts of you.

We teach you how to -

reliably disidentify from these parts of you to get into what we call "Self space" - the spacious awareness that is you, in which you can be confident, compassionate, connected and creative. From this perspective you are aware that you have different parts of you but you are not had by them.

Step by step we show you -

how to easily work through the complexity of these fragmented parts of you, by relating to them with a lot of love and curiosity. 

We don't just stop at teaching you the skills of working with these parts though. We also teach you how to -

powerfully relate to others with an awareness of the different parts of you - both yours and theirs. This tends to be tricky territory. Other human beings just seem to get in the way at times! "If only they would.... then I could do or be 'x' more easily". Sound familiar perhaps? In relationship, not only do we have to deal with our own ‘bs’ but also that of another!

Knowing how to relate to another from this Self space, speaking for the different parts of us, rather than from them is an expression of having good boundaries in relating. In our experience this is an absolute game changer for relationships because people are more able to hear what we are saying, blame is taken out of the equation and we are more flexible in our perspectives, rather than black and white, speaking in "Truths" which people are likely to find hard to listen to.

Creating a sense of nervous system regulation and wholeness inside, your reality expressed cleanly in your relationships, lets you receive and express the light of your Essence with a depth and rapidity not possible before. Your relationships are inevitably going to feel naturally safer, more connected and intimate when this shift in your relating occurs.

As this happens your evolution and life becomes radiantly magical!

No longer repeating cycles of pain and self sabotage, you become one of the Awakened ones who lives ecstatically and powerfully, who can truly make a difference in this world.

Here are the need-to-knows: 

When: Friday, August 4 - Sunday, September 10

Cost: $1850 AUD

*Payment plans available. You can set the pace at which you pay. Your plan will have you paid up before the end of the course on Sep 10.

Course Dates:

Weekend Residential

Friday, August 4 : 6.30pm - 8.30pm

Saturday, August 5 : 10am - 6pm

Sunday, August 6 : 10am - 4pm

* Accommodation costs included in course price.

* Meal cost not included, $100.

This includes Saturday breakfast, Saturday dinner, Sunday breakfast at a local cafe & Sunday lunch. Participants are asked to bring a plate to share for Saturday lunch.

Midweek Online Sessions

Tuesday, August 8 : 7pm - 9pm

Tuesday, August 15 : 7pm - 9pm

Optional : Daily Early Morning Online Practice Group

Tuesday, August 15th - Thursday, August 24th : 6.15am - 7.30am

Additional $150

Midweek Online Sessions

Thursday, August 24 : 6.30pm - 9.30pm *note longer session

Thursday, August 31 : 6.30pm - 8.30pm

Optional : Daily Early Morning Online Practice Group

Wednesday, August 30th - Friday, September 8th : 6.15am - 7.30am

Additional $150

Weekend Residential

Saturday, September 9th : 12pm - 7pm

Sunday, September 10th : 10am - 6pm

* Accommodation costs included in course price.

* Meal cost not included, $45.

This price includes dinner Saturday, breakfast and lunch Sunday. We ask participants to bring a plate to share for Saturday lunch.

We will hold your hand through all of this so that by the end you will feel transformed and confident in your ability to continue these practices toward ever increasing living Self led in connection with your Essence.

“We will support you through the journey and we have learned that no deep, long lasting change happens quickly, rather the opposite, it occurs incrementally over time. Thus our intention for this journey and hope for those that choose this journey is that, with a longer container, each person will have the space and time to experience changes within themselves and the way they make life happen, that are life changing. We know that this container will give you an inner structure to transform your inner relationships and become even more fully the author of your own life. Your world cannot help but be transformed when this is the reality you are living inside of. “